"Don’t ever feel bad for making a decision that upsets other people. You are not responsible for their happiness. You are responsible for your happiness."
Anonymous: as an anti-social person myself who tried the "pretend to be someone" technique and perfected a character, let me tell you that is the worst and most unhealthy idea and it didn't end up well-in my case at least- (it actually lead to my depression among other issues). I felt like I had to let you know.
I’ve been there… thank you for letting me know
and of course it sounds like a bad idea
but I need to snap out of this world of mine and push myself out there, if I don’t do that I’ll end up making the same mistakes all over again and end up nowhere.
Anonymous: When I started my first job, I was so antisocial that I didn't even know how to smile. So before I started, I thought to myself, "Hey, why not just be an actor whenever I have to go into work?" So I made up a personality that was "The Perfect Employee" and pretended to be that person every shift. This worked out for me SO WELL It was like I was getting away with pretending to be another person, but I soon BECAME that new person whenever I was at work, you know? Just pretend to be someone else :3
I’ll try my best, thank you :)